It’s an endless loop: overpromise, fail, block.

Growing up religious, this 29-year-old Nigerian woman assumed she was straight, but several toxic relationships (and situation-ships) later, she’s exploring dating her gender. From the inconsistent cultist to the insecure dog beater, she shares the hetero-experiences that led her to this shift on this week’s What She Said.

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject talks about writing for therapy, being a Christian in a staunch Muslim home and raising 17 cats.