It’s an endless loop: overpromise, fail, block.

Parents, especially young parents, often question their parenting methods, wondering if they’re doing the best for their children — a situation better known as “parenting guilt”. Lami* (26) struggled with parenting guilt after her child, Moyo*, was diagnosed with traumatic birth-induced partial paralysis before she was even a year old. Moyo has recovered now, but Lami still questions her parenting abilities because of this experience.

In case you’re confused, a Christian BBL just means doing bumbum in a way that pleases God.

If these women’s stories are anything to go by, financial abuse should be talked about more.

The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 42-year-old Nigerian woman. She shares how being her parents’ least favourite child made her fail school, lose motivation to work and accept her husband’s infidelity as her fault. Trigger warning: This story touches on parental emotional abuse and self-hate

What have you heard about women with facial hair? Chances are that what you know is just a myth. We spoke to a doctor for the facts.

Growing up religious, this 29-year-old Nigerian woman assumed she was straight, but several toxic relationships (and situation-ships) later, she’s exploring dating her gender. From the inconsistent cultist to the insecure dog beater, she shares the hetero-experiences that led her to this shift on this week’s What She Said.

If there’s one thing Ebun* (24) is tired of, it’s being seen as an object for people’s fat fetish. She talks about growing up bigger than her mates and navigating situationships as a plus-size woman.

This week's What She Said subject is a 30-year-old Ghanaian woman whose father passed away when she was two years old. She tells us why she doesn’t look at his pictures and how she still can’t escape his memory.

Before you complain again about a babe stealing your shirts and hoodies, have you considered it could be her way of saying you have great style?