“How do you know what to do with your life?” is a question Kemi* may never get an answer to. She’s gone from medicine to discovering a passion for teaching, then health and safety, before choosing a social media career. Now, she’s just “winging it”.

Oge may have closed the distance in her relationship when she moved back to Nigeria, but that means earning half her previous income. Meanwhile, her fiancé’s family care more about how much older she is than him. She talks about it on #LoveCurrency

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 49-year-old Nigerian woman who lost a leg after an okada accident. She talks about waking up to find a stump where her leg used to be, what it’s like to lose a limb and what she thinks about how people treat amputees.

It feels like every one of my colleagues at Zikoko is on leave, and I’m sitting here wondering if there’s a memo I missed. Is there a war coming? Will the dollar start exchanging at ₦1k by the end of the week? Somebody, talk to me o. Read more:

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject talks about writing for therapy, being a Christian in a staunch Muslim home and raising 17 cats.

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 45-year-old Nigerian woman. She talks about spending the last 22 years in the UK moving from one menial job to another, not wanting her daughter to see her retire as a shop worker and finally going back to university.

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 28-year-old Nigerian woman who’s recently had a South-Eastern wedding. From the point of view of a younger millennial, she talks having multiple ceremonies, bride price negotiations and how everything surprised her.

This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 55-year-old Nigerian woman. She tells us about losing herself after marriage, losing all her money to her husband at 48 and relearning independence on the journey back up.

Today’s subject for #ZikokoWhatSheSaid is Michelle Nelson, a 25-year-old Nigerian woman. She talks about leaving Jos in 2012 after the religious riots started in 2001, and discovering versions of herself that make the woman she is today.

The subject of today's #ZikokoWhatSheSaid is a 53-year-old Nigerian woman who talks about moving to Lagos to make it in the 90's, the realities of supporting six younger siblings in 1992 as the first daughter and her transition into the money lending business to survive and become her own person.