This week’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 29-year-old Nigerian woman who got married, had her first child and relocated to the UK in quick succession. She tells us about juggling school, work and motherhood, and just how hellish it could be to stop breastfeeding your baby.

“I stole my girlfriend from another guy and now she’s flirting with other men. It doesn’t bother me though, I like the competition.” — 7 Nigerian Men Talk About the Red Flags They Ignored in Their Relationships

From ballroom culture to the relationship between queerness and religion, these documentaries are giving us range!! Grab a seat, we're learning about queer African stories today.

In 2014, this ghostwriter's rate was ₦1 per word. 8 years later, she’s making 7 figures per project. Maybe one day she’ll release a book with her name but right now, she doesn’t care about recognition — as long as the pay is good. This is #AWeekInTheLife

Today’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is a 36-year-old Nigerian woman. She talks about her big-city dreams after moving from Owerri to Lagos, why she married her persistent lover from Facebook and the challenge of living with her in-laws before finding happiness.

Hadiza*, 35, and Zikora*, 40, dated for three years before they got married. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about being friends who travelled together for work, growing into a relationship and getting married despite living in Nigeria where same-sex marriage is illegal. Read here:

Ejiro*, 23, and Mimi*, 22, have been dating for over a year. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about running away from their homes to build a life together, learning to survive on their own and what a future looks like for them. Read here:

The subject of today’s What She Said is a 24-year-old woman who talks about studying pharmacy to please her parents, getting withdrawn from school after failing a semester, and finally studying what she wanted.

If you do at least three things on this list, you definitely have a spirit husband or wife. Better go and pray.

Nwando, 22, and Dave, 22, met in the strangest of places: a gutter. On today’s episode of Love Life, they talk about the sweetness of easy love, and the troubles of dating as young people.