Threesomes: for when sex between two people is never enough. Because they can be had by any gender, and people hardly ever center women when it comes to sex, we spoke to 7 Nigerian women about their threesome experience.
Ajike, 23
So, it was with this guy that has been toasting me, and his girlfriend. He had sex with his girlfriend first, while I was just there waiting and watching till he got to me. He mentioned something about how he cannot have sex with condom on because his erection will vanish. I made him use a condom and he was right, so I just moved to his girlfriend. It was fun to watch and be watched, and since we were three, certainly qualifies as a threesome.
Toyosi, 22
Terrible, I really regret it. It was with a friend and her man. She wanted to try being with a woman and wanted to share that with him, and I agreed. I was horny and on drugs, so why not? Turns out she did not expect him to kiss me. I was so upset because she claimed I was moving to her man which is weird because I had a boyfriend at the time. I feel she just wanted him to see her fondle a lady, the cis-het version of spicing up a relationship.
Amanda, 22
My friends with benefits proposed it one random day. He had a friend who also wanted a threesome and so he planned it will be with his friend. The friend and I made out and almost had sex before the friends with benefits came back from work. When he came back, I was really lost in it and then realised he was the only onw I wanted to sleep with. His friend could like to gtfo. I got dry when the friend touched me, so I got sore really quick. In general it was just annoying.
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Ginika, 21
The first actual threesome I participated in was when I was 19. I was ambushed into it. It was not planned, but it was great. The babe was my sexy friend, and I was at her house when her friends with benefits came around. We got really high and it just happened. I was overthinking it at first, but I think the penis cleared my doubts.
Elizabeth, 28
It was not like I expected. It was fun, but quite disappointing. At a point, the dude and my friend were fucking like I wasn’t in the room, like I was invincible. I complained to my friend about being left out, and I was allowed my turn. Problem was after we were done, his friend came to knock, begging to join. I did not want to seem so uptight, so I said okay. I was upset, quite an uncomfortable experience.
Adaeze, 28
The first one I regret because it was at the dude’s house and his place was dirty as fuck. Roaches everywhere, dirty dishes and clothes everywhere. Don’t judge me, I know I should have got up and left, but I was young and silly, plus he had alcohol so I was just looking for a fun time. It was not even worth it, him and his friend were mediocre.
Chika, 22
So, it was two women plus me. The two other women were in a relationship at the time, and one had discussed having a threesome with me and her girlfriend some time ago. I agreed because I wanted to cross it off of my bucket list, plus I also knew both of them and did not have any attachment towards them. We had the threesome when I came visiting. It just happened, and since we were not all sober, I guess it was easier and less awkward that way.
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