Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to suck for single women, especially if you are single by choice. Here’s a list of things you can do for yourself on that day.
1. Take sick leave
Yup. You deserve it. It’s not easy to be single and live your life without good morning texts or flowers at your doorstep. Ask your office for the day off to rest and pamper yourself, my dear.
2. Take yourself out to lunch or dinner
Visit one of those over-priced restaurants around you and treat yourself to a large meal. After all, if you were dating someone, that’s what you two would have done.
3. Stay off social media
It’s going to be matching pyjamas Christmas all over again, except worse. If you’re not ready to see pictures of your ex or your crush coupled up, avoid social media on the 14th. A word is enough for the wise.
4. Sleep
Sleep is always an easy escape. The trick is to overeat, drink and let your body do its thing. By the time you wake up, it’s February 15th.
5. Read a romance novel
Novels are another cheap way to escape reality. The right romance novel will have you feeling like it’s you that is the apple of the protagonist’s eye.
6. Watch a serial killer documentary movie
They are intense and demand a lot of attention, leaving no space for any weird feelings that might come from being single on Valentine’s Day. Cook yourself a meal or order food in for an immersive experience.
7. Visit your parents
Even if no one wants to love you, your parents will always love you. Spend some time with them to remind yourself that you are loved. If that’s not an option for you, refer to number 8.
8. Plan a Galentine’s hangout with your friends
Galentine’s day is a day for women to celebrate their female friendships. It’s like Valentine’s day but for women. You can host a sleepover or see a movie at the cinema together. Either way, you’re spending time with your girls. Speaking of which, we at HER have something for you on Galentine’s day. Subscribe to the newsletter to be a part of it.
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