African dads are known to put on a tough exterior but things can get overwhelming for those who are widowed especially on special occasions like Father’s Day in Nigeria.
It’s a day that can quickly bring up mixed emotions, and we don’t want that especially if daddy has been nothing short of sweet and amazing. So, let’s talk about these heartwarming ways to celebrate your widowed dad on Father’s Day.
Spend quality time
If you’re looking to make the best of Father’s Day in Nigeria for your widowed dad, quality time should be at the top of your list. You’ll be surprised that daddy doesn’t even want fancy gifts or ‘paranra players’. Just show up and remind him that he’s not alone.
Cook up something he loves
Daddy has most likely missed the taste of your late mum’s food but you know who has the closest chance of teasing his taste buds again? You, yes you. Think of what he enjoys the most and stock his freezer with it. It could be afang soup, egusi or ewa adalu.
Handmade cards
It’s time to get creative with some DIY projects especially if daddy has grandkids. Enlist the help of the little ones to make customized cards and write personalized messages to him. This will for sure bring smiles to his face and remind him that he’s loved.
Remind him that you love him
If there’s a right time for him to be reminded about this vital piece of information, Father’s Day is just perfect. Either by text or calls, remind daddy that he’s the absolute love of your life. You’ll probably get a “thank you” or “you’re blessed” in response, sha.
Plan a date
Depending on if daddy is open to finding romantic love again, you can play the matchmaker. It makes him comfortable and clears the feeling of guilt he might have about being with someone else. However, we recommend keeping him in the loop.
Create a customised playlist
Music is powerful and helps people get through tough times. If you don’t already know, here’s another thoughtful way to celebrate your widowed dad during Father’s Day in Nigeria. If the loss is fairly recent, curate a list of songs he and your late mum loved. It will evoke a feeling of comfort and lift him whenever he listens to it.
Go outside
Outside is therapeutic and what better day to hit the streets with your old man than Father’s Day? Take daddy to your favourite spot, or his favourite spot. Could be Fela’s Shrine or a strip club, or even church fellowship. As long as he likes it there.
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