Fulfilling your dream or doing what you want in a Nigerian home is like eliminating corruption in Nigeria. It’s kind of impossible for the most. We made a list of all the challenges you can ever face on this path.
1. When you decide what you want to be finally
And it’s not in line with what your parents have decided for you.2. But then you want to be different
You decide it is time to be bold and stand up for yourself3. So you have to strategize on how to talk to and approach your parents
Should I tell Uncle Kola or Aunty Chioma to go with me?4. But your uncles and aunties are not having it
“It’s not me and you, go and meet your father and tell him yourself”.5. So you summon courage and gather liver
But your liver is kind of shaky and you aren’t sure.6. First roadblock – “are you okay upstairs?”
The worst happens. Your father has disagreed.7. Your mother says “your father is the one paying your school fees go and meet him”
Oh God! And she decides to stand by your father’s decision.8. So your mother decides to be extra and take your matter up
Because she feels you are becoming rebellious and carrying shoulders up.